Hey Chris,

Dealing with the hurt and confusion of divorce, especially under your circumstances, is tough. I don’t think we ever fully heal from such things. I don’t think you should expect to be as you once were again. The question that comes to mind when I read this is; Are you hesitating to fully love and commit to her because of fear? It’s very difficult to love in the aftermath of divorce and infidelity. It is an act of supreme courage. “Love is the prerogative of the brave”

You’ve been hurt, your dreams have been taken away. It is a horrible experience. To put yourself in a position where this can happen again is scary. But what is the alternative? To live life closed and guarded? Trust in yourself my friend. Trust in love. You may fall a thousand times. You may be hurt again and again. But you will never be broken. Only you know if it can work with her. Just don’t let the fear of future pain stop you from giving her the gift of your love and devotion.

I wish you well. 🙂