Thank you for your advice!
He just likes to keep things with himself. He does not usually express his feeling and that is the problem. He seems like the person who will listen to his friends and follow their advice. I realized that every time he wanted to live apart were when he just found a new group of friends and he wanted to have social life. He always stated “he does not want to have a gf”. He has been in relationship for over 8 years (he had two girlfriends before he met me and after he broke up with them he would jump into a new relationship right away).
His friends told him to move on and find someone to sleep with to forget me. When they do not even know me so well or what we have been through this past 4 years. Two weeks ago, he was drunk and we got into a fight. He said he does not love me anymore and he just wants me to give him two weeks alone. He said he enjoys going out clubbing and drinking with his friends now. ? I dont even know why would he ask me to give him two weeks for?
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