Hi Vhanon

Thank you for your reply.
I can say yes I saw proof of the accident and yes the injury is real, it was the first thing that I asked for. At this stage the doctors say its a wait and see with the memory loss they have said it may or may not come back nothing definite unfortunately. He is still having MRI’S and scans as there is still some brain swelling. He sees a psychologist when he sees his doctor, the phsyc has said to not rush too much and not expect big things with the memory the harder he pushes himself the longer it may take if it comes back at all. He has also gone an alternative therapy and will be doing a soul reconnection retreat (since an occurrence after the accident he is now open to this side of things) next month which I have encouraged.
I did read some emails between the them the content was not extensive or anything just short emails regarding plans etc. And the photos were of a weekend away none of which he remembers.
And you are right, he is not the man I used to know. I find him now to be unsure of things and himself where as before he was confident to the point of being arrogant. I have pointed that out to him also.
So I guess I just dont know what to do with the information, or lack of, that I have and how I deal with it and move forward. Do I keep trying to find out things or do I leave it as is and try to resolve things as they stand. Im not sure how to resolve it.