I am all for sub-worlds and parallel lives. But enough is enough. Is it possible ~ just possible ~ that he’s hiding you because one of the women assumes he is single and he’s stringing her along ~ if only for fun? It’s weird that you are blanked like that. Well, I’m sure the other woman/women are blanked on FaceBook too. Look in his Friend Request list. I bet some of them are still in FB limbo.
Hey, my step brother was like that. He gets very, very uncomfortable when Sub-Worlds Collide. The family for a decade literally didn’t know where he lived in Newport. And he had three girl friends. Like cats, they knew of each other, but he made sure they each didn’t get into the other’s “territory”. Of course, he wisely is not on social media!!
Also ~ maybe your boyfriend had his daughter too young. Maybe he missed a good chunk of bachelor days.
Tell him, “Honey, this is an episode of When Sub-Worlds Collide. Add me back on Instagram AND put in a photo of me. Who do you like more? An internet fan girl or a real live woman of flesh and blood who’s right here.”
Forget passive-aggressive or aggressive. Time to Be Assertive.
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