Dear Katie,
Every break up is hard. Hugs to you. Just a few months ago, I had to let go of a relationship too. Like your situation, everything seemed ok at the beginning – good conversation, many common interests, … But something was missing, and it didn’t feel like ‘this is it’. Everything happens for a reason. And the opposite is also true – something doesn’t happen for a reason. Sometimes, we are not meant to stay in a certain place because we are meant to walk through another door. This is hard, very hard. But it can be a time of self-reflection. Time to look into yourself and embrace all that you are and grow. Everyone, who comes into our lives, even briefly, is meant to teach us something about ourselves, and vice versa. Some lessons are heartbreaks, but they are lessons nonetheless. And sometimes, only you know what the lesson was for you after you have enough time to think about things. Give yourself this time. If things are meant to work out, they will. Focus on you. Embrace the change, reflect on them, and we’ll come out stronger and wiser.
With love and warmth.
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