Dear Alice,
In youth, sometimes, life feels as though it is about this one person, and you can’t imagine life otherwise. But it’s really just a chapter in our life. Life is a series of lessons. Everyone who enters into our life is meant to teach us something about ourselves. You will learn more about yourself with each crisis you can survive. So, even though it feels like a crisis right now, it might be a blessing in disguise. You have all the strength in you to overcome this hard time. Just be very patient with yourself. This might be a chance for you to put less focus on relationships and more on you. Try a new hobby, try out that something you’ve always wanted to do. Might be it’s a call to move inward, to find who you truly are and what truly brings you joy. Everything happens for a reason. And the opposite is also true – something doesn’t happen for a reason. Sometimes, we are not meant to stay in a certain place because we are meant to walk through another door. This is hard, very hard. But it can be a time of self-reflection. Time to look into yourself and embrace all that you are and grow.
Much love and warmth to you.
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