Lavender,

It seems you are happy with this relationship. As long as you accept that he may in fact be gay and might pursue that in the near future, then it’s something you are already prepared for. Just enjoy the moments you are having with him, that’s all you can do. Every second, every minute, every hour and every day is precious in our lives as we are not guaranteed to be here every day. All you can do is be happy in this moment, as it is a special gift. At least you and this man are honest with each other and don’t lie about each other but hiding his sexuality can cause problems later. That is the problem I had with Hart, everything was secrets & lies to the very point that she resented me for allowing herself to fall in love with me, if I never see Hart again, that is the pain she must carry in her heart for not allowing herself to pursue something that could have been great. It’s weird, when her and I are around each other she can’t help but to be herself and love me back, but when I’m away from her, she hates me. Things aren’t going to be settled between her and I until we sit down and talk about what went wrong in our relationship because what I had remembered, we had a very good relationship before she disappeared. Reverting back to your situation, I believe as long as you two are happy and enjoying the time you are spending with each other, being communicative and be honest is all that matters. If you believe he’s hiding his sexuality and it’s obvious to you, then it’s time to start taking a better look at the situation because there’s a chance someone is going to get deeply hurt here. I don’t know you and I don’t know him well to give you a direct answer but what I will tell you is that a woman’s intuition/gut feeling for the most part never lies.

Talk soon.