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December 1, 2014 at 4:34 am
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InkyParticipant
I agree with Tiny Butterfly.
Meet him for coffee. That’s about it. If he mentions “Friends with Benefits” say, “That’s not who I am.” It will probably end things, I’m just warning you, as he had already defined your relationship. Tell him that the fling you had usually goes against your nature, that it was a fluke that you did that with him. Clearly, he is special. But so are you, therefore, casual sex is “Not who I am”.
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