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December 5, 2014 at 9:13 am
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AnneParticipant
First, act out of self compassion. Hurting yourself to help another can’t work if that “other” cares about you – it will just bring them pain to know that you’re suffering on their behalf. I’d suggest a good long period of no contact before trying to reinitiate as friends – I tried doing everything *except* that when I was in your position and it was an unmitigated disaster :’)
Good luck with whatever you decide
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