Hi Yudine,

I really appreciate your differing view and it is very similar to what my husband has expressed to me over this difficult time. He needs time to re-find himself and his purpose. I, too, think he is trying find to his “passion” whether that be a hobby, career, me, etc. Unfortunately, he would like to do this without me…meaning we are no longer in the same house as he told me he would like time to think things over. You are completely right that it takes 2 hands to clap (I love that phrase!). These past few months I’ve tried different ideas to rekindle things but maybe they weren’t the right things or they were the wrong timing. I’m not certain. At this point I figure I’ve tried the best I could under all the conditions that life throws at us daily. I definitely don’t want to give up but when he’s asking me to give him space I will respect his wishes. I, too, hope things get better and that we will be together again. Thank you again for your supportive words Yudine.