Marko- I am Serbian! That is crazy haha. I mean I’ve never lived there but my parents are Serbian…what a coincidence. Thank you for the meditation tips. Can’t wait to do the “ohmmm” sound thing. I spend a lot of time alone because I like it, but it usually involves music. I don’t really like silence…i probably need to try it more often. Thanks a lot :). I will try to make it a routine.

Adam- What you just wrote really does hit home. I was telling myself just today that i should have registered on this forum earlier. You are all very inspiring. But most of all, you all give me a fresh perspective on things, so thank you. “Why do you feel the need to be dependent?”, another thing i thought about today…if i’m being honest, even if this was my first serious relationship, I felt that need before, with other people I loved. So there is a problem there. I’m addressing it with my counselor but I guess it takes time. “you need to bring ALL the issues into the light”, you are absolutely right. But there are so many, it seems. I guess the key is somewhere in me, though…thank you very much for these positives words Adam, i sure will check out your blog.