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vidalevi
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Adam,
Thanks a lot for the reply. I really appreciate it.
I’m really struggling with ‘love yourself’ phase because from childhood I have thrived on external validation and appreciation.
Very recently I have realised that I have very less self-love and self worth. I was never comfortable with my looks and always felt I wad physically not beautiful. I was made fun of during my school and college days(dark and fat) and I had rather become reclusive and an introvert.
The people whom I dated cheated on me and left me for others and it affirmed my belief that I’m not worth it at all.
The so-called friends and relatives used me ti get their work done and they dumped me thereafter.
Very slowly I’m getting out of these cycles and surrounding with people who genuinely keeps reminding me of my self – worth.
Everything wad going fine till I got rejected and I wad thrown into the same well of self-pity.
Thanks again for the reply.
PS: Going through your blog and there are really some good stuffs out there.