Hi, thanks for your words. Well, whats stopping me is that its just too soon to have that conversation. It’s there or it isn’t. I am not the man in the relationship – he is. I don’t need to set the expectations. He does.
In my book – it is his job to woo me – and if he doesn’t then he does’t.

I’ve had other men that liked me a lot – and they chased chased chased me – and I knew that they liked me – without a shadow of a doubt. we got into a relationship because they wooed me! And maybe at first I didn’t like them 100% – but I fell in love with their treatment and behavior and caring for me. For me its 50% physical and 50% emotional/spiritual. Things didn’t work out later bc well….I got to know them better and we weren’t aligned on things (values/ beliefs..etc).

I just would not feel good about myself “opening” up – maybe he just isnt right. Sigh. It’s been hardly 3 months – and we just started seeing each other more often…

Too bad bc there are a lot of other things I do like about him – but in my opinion – if he liked me so much (like he says he does) – I’d definetly feel it. I’m just not feeling it. Sigh.