Thank you for your response. I greatly appreciate your help. We aren’t in counseling together right now, he sees a therapist individually and I will be starting sessions for myself soon. We have a one year old daughter together and have been together for five years, but many of those years were off and on. I feel like his expectations are somewhat unreasonable sometimes, he often gets frustrated that we aren’t in our ideal place of love and affection towards each other and often disregards whatever progress we make. I’m the one that’s always attempting to see the positive in the situation and pointing out the things that we’re doing well at. But sometimes he just gets in these bouts of thought and negativity, and starts complaining to me about everything and how he wishes I was back to my old self. Of course my response of frustration to his frustration doesn’t help but it happens almost on an everyday basis and I am overwhelmed with stress and it’s taking all of my energy. I just want to be happy and move forward with my life but I feel like our relationship is just keeping us in limbo.