Voice of Grace it sounds like you have finally found something positive and useful and I am guessing that you are feeling more upbeat than you have in awhile. I am happy for you. I too am new to the group…this is my first time replying in fact. It’s funny how we always feel so alone in our suffering, jealous of everyone else who appear to be going on just fine in their happy lives. I was grateful to find this site because it brings honesty to the human experience, to talk about the things that bother us, or the things we are working hard to learn and accept.

So, I guess all I really wanted to say is “Good luck to both of us!” 🙂