Hi trusttheflow,

You dodged an abusive, crazy, manipulative bullet!! Do you know what a gift from God him “dumping” you was?

First of all, the girl on his bed? I’m sure it was a pic from before you were together. It wouldn’t surprise me. Let’s just be clear. You not moving in with him, and leaving because he wouldn’t let you throw away trash? You dumped him, baby, and he knew it! OK, YAY!!!

Second of all, him trying to convince you that you’re wrong because you don’t want to be around anything illegal or hazardous? Manipulative! He’s an active criminal and doesn’t take out the trash. Could it be he is trash?? You’re all “This isn’t normal, honey” and he tells you you’re crazy? Manipulative.

Third of all, he’s crazy. He should be on Hoarders, the show. This is a mental illness. You are not qualified to deal with someone with a mental illness.

Lastly, you deserve more than being with a drug addict who’s a hoarder. I don’t know, look out on the street, pick anyone, and I mean ANYONE, and they will probably be better than this guy.

Praise Sweet Baby Jesus you’re Free,

Inky