You are spot on. I went to an 8 while she dropped to 3. I have learned my lesson that throwing more love at the initial stages doesn’t work well. I didn’t have to distant myself away from her since she already cut me off. I think feel too hurt to loiter around now even if she didn’t cut me off. I know time will heal but at the moment, I am just really tired and frustrated while trying not to dwell and feel sad. I think a love-hate feeling for someone is torturous. I hope the day I no longer think of the incident will arrive soon. This is really a growth experience for me. Thank you for your advice.