Hi Az,

If a guy haven’t made his intentions clear in 2 years, he is either not interested or afraid. With romance, someone will have to take a risk at some stage and traditionally it’s the guy. Instead of feeling uncertain and wondering what happen, wouldn’t it be nice for someone to just take the lead and make their intentions clear? If his fear of rejection is greater than how much he likes you, he’s probably not the kind of man you are looking for. I mean, can you imagine being the driver for every intimate step of the relationship? Ack.

As for guy B, if you are interested, you might as well give him a chance and see what happens. You can always say no if things didn’t work out but at least you gave it a go. Thing will romance is that no one hits a home run every time and as long as you keep your boundaries clear, you should be fine.