Thank you for giving me some confidence back here! I guess I just have to find out at this point what ‘rights’ he has to the kids (almost 3 and almost 2), as now he has been completely playing up his role in their life and telling me he believes he would be the one to get them and I’d be stuck with occasional ‘visiting rights’…that really does scare me, and the truth is he’s never spent longer then 8 hours alone with them himself so how he expects to handle them full time is beyond me. (Unless he is only saying that as a last resort scare tactic, who knows)…