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I would get the same thing…”which personality am I talking to today?” I don’t meet the criterion for being bipolar. Its a word they use without knowing what it even means.
I got the nipple twists. Finally one night I told him that if he did that again, I would leave. He stopped. Imagine having that done to you during their most sensitive time of the month. Luckily, that was a far as the physical went.
I too feel guilty of being accused of being abusive. I was often too afraid to say anything. I am not sure how I was abusive. I guess I will never know.
Surprisingly, my previous boyfriend has reassured me that I am perfectly normal, and nowhere close to being bipolar or having a split personality.
As much as it hurts for it to be over, I’m also relieved. I don’t have to listen to someone tell me I’m something I’m not. Hopefully we can both put the mind games behind us and live the lives we were meant to live.