Only losers cheat. People with integrity and class end the relationship first. You have to draw the line somewhere and realize that this behavior is not acceptable or desirable in a mate.

Don’t be so hard on yourself even the rich and famous get their hearts kicked around. Take for instance Jennifer Anniston or Justin Timberlake.

If this is a trend in your life (always getting dumped) it is possible you are repeating your mistakes. Or it could be the same type of man you are attracted to that is the problem. Men love feminine women that are sweet and supportive. If you are harsh and critical or nagging that is a man’s worst nightmare. Maybe reflect on this. Looks are what lure men in but your attitude makes them stay long-term.

As far as your feelings of inadequacy, this is something all humans share in common. Welcome to the club. In my experience the only way to break through this is a mix of healthy behaviors and habits. Are you neglecting your body? Diet? Need for friendships? Need for meaningful work?… Are you meditating daily? Praying? Having a spiritual life? Setting goals?…. I suggest developing a mindfulness practice… Otherwise you’ll be doomed to having your recurring thoughts and fears dominate your life and drain you of energy. Controlling your self defeating thoughts will restore the energy needed to make positive changes. Lastly I suggest you to be thankful for ending a toxic relationship. It is better to be alone than to be someone’s slave or second option.

Namaste