I’m worrying about future stuff too. Anticipating it I mean..

Like any father figures or step fathers being in my boys life. I know I may not be able to stop this from happening. However I will ensure that my boy calls me daddy & me only. Nobody else. I will be present in my sons life until the day I die, so if he has a step dad the the step dad will be getting called by his own name. If I wasn’t around or didn’t care about my son, then ok, a kid needs a dad. But I am around & I will always be around. I do not mean this in an aggressive way either, I’ll not be “enforcing” it or anything. It will simply be a matter of correcting my boy if I ever hear him refer to anyone else using the word daddy or similar wording.