Hi lukas-kovac,

Well, sometimes life throws us a “freebie”. And you said, “No thanks”. Let’s be honest, you didn’t have to work for her (dating, wooing, courting) and that part was missing. Psychologically essential in my opinion. You’re thinking about her more now because it’s not a sure thing anymore ~ if at all!

Make it a general rule not to “date” your flat mates. No good ever comes of it.

Time, time, and more time will help you. Also meeting new people. Eventually your life’s memories will become an archeological dig and her memory will be somewhere under layers of other experiences, places and relationships.

Best,

Inky