I think the single life is underrated by a lot of people. If you have interests and friends and family that keep you occupied and bring you flow and satisfaction, there’s nothing wrong with not participating in the coupling institutions. Batchelorhood has a long and veritable history.

The only note I would make is that sometimes “meh” is a cover. Some things we honestly feel “meh” about, but at other times what’s going on is this: “I don’t want to feel what I’m feeling about this so I’m just going to cover it over with ‘meh’.” I don’t think it could hurt to honestly consider if that’s what’s going on, to welcome, as it were, whatever feeling might be under the “meh”. And if there’s nothing, then go live your life and don’t worry about romance. It’s not for everyone, and plenty of people do fine without it.