Hi marisa,
Is he the father of your child? Is he living with you? Some might not think it matters, but it does!
My number one advice for you is to have your own place/space. When you two are 24/7 we can say things we don’t mean. He is TOO comfortable with you, know what I mean? He doesn’t even know he’s doing it, and if he does it’s “no big deal”. And the reason why you can’t let it go is because you feel like he didn’t hear you the first time!!
What if YOU said (as an experiment) out of the blue, “I can’t do this anymore”? He will be surprised, and rant and rave, but just say it. Then be silent. Leave that statement hanging. Don’t fight him about it, what you said, or the past. Just be silent, leave for a while, and let him sit with that anxiety.
Then when you return he’ll want to fix it. Then you say, “Now you know how it feels. Don’t ever make blanket statements like that again or you’ll create your own words into reality.”
Just see what happens.
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