Hi brickflipper,
Oh the poor girl! I’m sorry, but all she needed to do was devote 100% of her energies into that thesis. The last thing she needed was babysitting two guy’s feelings during that time!!
Listen, Long Distance relationships are hard.
Moving in together is hard.
Grad school is hard.
Why does it have to be hard? Any of it?
I suggest she has a relationship AFTER grad school and have her OWN place.
This way, you can actually enjoy yourselves!! Then, after a year or two with no drama, get married.
Just my opine!
Good Luck!
Inky
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