Hi Purplepinguin:
My thoughts regarding your note to me: anything you do in regard to this man is okay as long as you do not abuse him, as long as you treat him with respect. It is your top responsibility to take care of yourself. If it hurts you to be in contact with him- end the contact… respectfully. Do it honestly- not having to tell him everything you think and feel, but what you do say should be true. Maybe you can tell him that you are confused at the moment- without having to go into detail. But the point is- do what you need to do to take care of yourself. Be your own best advocate.
Take Care of You:
anita