@anita I don’t think I expect him to change, I understand this is who he is. I think I was looking for some insight into how this way of thinking may have a positive side or that not everyone has to analyze every aspect of life the way many of us do. I often think the way I think and my need to talk it out can actually be detrimental at times.

@thethinker2015 – he has always been this way. He said he’s always just dealt with any issue in life by himself and doesn’t feel the need to consult other people. He’s very confident in his decisions. I should emphasize he treats me well, does nice things, just does not really express his feeling about me or life.