Dear Rodrigo,

I fully understand where you’re coming from. Trust me. But I just promised myself that I won’t dwell in that emotion of feeling like I cannot live without him because I can. I just don’t want to. I felt that way for the first 3 days of our break up but I realized that my life cannot be centered around this one human being, he is not my entire life. Although he truly was the greatest portion of it, he is not all of it. And that’s important to know.

I’m trying not to look at it as a loss and appreciate that I was lucky enough to experience a love like ours. I take it as a blessing. It was magic. Not many people can say they’ve experienced that. So try to live and think positively. The negative aspects of it I feel will not be beneficial to our healing process.