Anita,

I’m a little unsure about what you mean when you say: “It seems to me, from what you are describing, that it may be impossible to get you to a place where you stop thinking and overthinking HIM and only then focus on you. She can USE your thinking about you to help you get in touch with YOU.”

Are you saying more along the lines like I’m not capable of healing from this? Or are you saying that her technique is not really the best approach to take with me?

I mean, I am totally for the theory of trying to conquer past wounds with current relationships. I believe that. But how do I approach and heal a past issue like this?