Anita,
Thank you for being kind to me. I really needed it to start this day!

About getting hurt, how does it matter for if a relation of 6 years turned into marriage fails. I had never slept with any other man… I’m not a Bitch; but as a human being, I have sexual needs. I’m not ready to invest emotionally nor to share the roof. I’m might sound like negative, but I’m completely okay like this, rather it’s much easier and less painful. I know he must be open to other women, as long as it’s not to my knowledge it’s ok. I’m here for my own needs to be fulfilled.

And the time it does hurt, I’ll pull the plug. Atleast the hurt won’t be as deep as a serious relationship.

Pluses:
1) Good for a change from regular schedule
2) Exploring new things with him
3) A little bit of care and attention does help.

Minuses:
1) It bothered me when he asked if I love him. I don’t want more what it is. When I love someone, I invest my 100%, else I don’t. So he knows the limits now.
2) Probable minus- if he wants to date someone else, I’m ok with it as long as he makes it clear.