Dear reena89:
I read your post twice, attentively. I didn’t pick up on anything dishonest about him. He “sounds” from your writing like an honest person. Sounds to me like you can trust his words. He is cautiously optimistic about your relationship. That means he is not SURE and that he is telling you he is not sure. I think it is admirable that he is honest enough to tell you that. Not being sure is not an “evil” thing on his part. He can’t help but feel what he feels. The question is can you live with the way he feels?

You wrote: “I know these words are very reassuring and his actions tell me alot but i believe in actions.” I wonder about this sentence and maybe you can explain it to me:
His words, you wrote, are “very reassuring” – of what, I ask?
His actions tell you a lot- what are his actions telling you?
When you write “BUT i believe in actions.” What actions do you wish he will make?

Would like you sharing more and will be glad to respond again, if you’d like.
anita