Dear Lost Girl:
If you can meet with him as a friend, intending to NOT change your plans to move abroad, but just to meet with him to talk, without getting involved and committed, if you can handle that- why not meet with him, get to know him and go on with your plans?

How about meeting guys, when you do, just for conversations- even intimate conversations- as in exercise, practice, not for instant intimacy and lifetime commitment. Practice connecting with guys NOT romantically, but honestly. It might take the sting out of your fear- to set LIMITS on the relationship and not exceed those limits. Might make you stronger… what do you think?
anita