I’ve asked and I get different answers. At first, she liked the attention, then it was an escape, then it was someone she could share her thoughts and problems with, then it was they just talk about nothing. She always maintains they are just friends, that nothing sexual happened and when I asked if it was an emotional affair, after her initial denial she did say there was some validity to that. But my gut says not to believe her. I don’t know where to go here. It baffles my mind me that she actually thought the three of us would be friends again… But regardless of how this turns out, I did learn about my weaknesses (insecurity) and found out I am stronger and more loyal (to the point where I feel like I am a sucker) than I gave myself credit for and hopefully I can learn to be a more trusting person and partner in the future, no matter who I am with.