Abhishek,

I was not confused about your message lengths to her. I don’t mean to be overly sharp, but you’re being a little thick and not taking the hint. She doesn’t want you prying into her inner realm, so stop it. It’s not your business to make her into someone you think she should be, friend, so leave her alone.

“I just want her to….”

Too bad! She doesn’t have to do what you want. Get it?

That being said, she doesn’t seem to be that great at setting boundaries, but respect them anyway. See?

With warmth,
Matt