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June 14, 2015 at 3:55 pm
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MattParticipant
Luckycharms,
No, it is not spineless to move out suddenly without warning him. He has given you plenty of reason for you not to trust him to take it well, or let you leave safely, and you need to do what you can to protect yourself from his unhealthy reactions. To me, he sounds like ugly bluster, and may not do anything but crumple up and whimper. But its not worth the risk, your description of him is deeply disturbing.
With warmth,
Matt
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