Aloma- wanted to let you know that i read and very much liked your input here. I like the idea (with which I am familiar) of pointing to myself when I find myself pointing at another, being negatively critical of another. The other may be a jerk, an abusive person, but first look at myself. In other words, everything is projections. My projection into another may be true, accurate, mostly and it may be completely inaccurate- and everything in between.

You wrote: “Please protect your heart!” You wrote it with some urgency. If you’d like (and if it is okay with Rose Tattoo- and anyone can tell me what they feel or what are the rules about addressing a commentator on a thread of another- when the thread is fresh and when it is old?) can you share more about that urgency which I perceive in your statement?
anita