Dear Blessing, yeah i do not mind sharing the email address but yeah the same thought the wrong ones may not get it. I would love to share my email address with you.
Now coming to you- the coffee incidence, I am also like that, I cannot say I was like that because that would be too early to call it “I WAS” but yeah the reason for me not reacting now too much on such petty issues is my job and less amount of time with eachother and I have realized we used to fight over such small things earlier, and I had ample of time to make up to make him understand, now we hardly have time. And after the fight i do not feel good, uncomfortable and then spendin hours or days without resolving or with frictions because of less amount of time. I cannot afford that. and its not a new country for my husband he has been here from last 8 years, its new for me, because I have got married and migrated here.
And he is a confident man, I do not feel man feels insecure or they have some sort of fear. only females are too emotional or emotion driven human being thats why they tend to have that feeling of losing and all.
But I am really feeling nice and good, since a week when I have realized that the fights only bring friction and bitterness, just a matured step of handling the matter and issues can save a lot, can save your time, energy and you can have more good and lovely time together…
We can share emails but should I leave my email address here.

Take care of yourself blessing. I feel its all about the positive feeling, and feel good factor. There are things which do hurt me now, but they do not to that a big extent, i still take it in a positive way, because I cannot afford to fight with him, I do not want to waste a day or so. There are ways of communicating your message, you just need to know the right approach. Hope I continue to be like this. Thank you Anita.

Hope all is well with you, how are you feeling today?
Take good care of yourself.

I am looking forward to hear from you