Hey Blessing, good morning
Yeah, I do not know about this forum and the privacy of it, my husband does not know about this conversation. Anyways will see how to fix this.
Yeah, because I have realized that with fights I waste my time, ultimately i have to resolve and make things normal, then why not to do it then and there itself. I cannot afford to waste time, I know the uneasiness I have after the fights, I do not want to deal with that while being at work. So thats why the ideal approach is to resolve and make yourself understand, its alright, if he is not been able to understand I cannot do much about it. Had an issue today in the morning as well, but that’s fine. I did not apologize because I was not wrong, but I made sure that I should resolve before I leave. Because ppl are not bad its the circumstances or the situations they behave in that way and even if its his fault what should I do.. should i spoil my weekend waiting over this that he will come back to me with a sorry. WAs that thing really big, and yes it hurts the way he said today in the morning, could have been more politer but that’s alright. Not the end there, to have a smooth journey I need to let go of small small things, because I continue to hold these issues, I will never learn things in life, life will continue to put those challenges to me until unless I learn a lesson out of it. And I have a realization with today’s incident I can say that I do not only say it for the heck of it, I am believeing and I have started acting on it… Because I lost temper initially but I held myself and communicated in an angry way but slowly and gradually lower the tone and said lets not stretch it…
Anyways and as far as fear is concerned, I do not think this at all, infact I wont believe that my husband has the same kind of stupid fears that I have. I do not know if he has any other.
Looking forward to hear from you