Dear Sweet:
Yes, I have been pseudo-helping people in this forum of “pseudo life” as you called it. In reality- maybe I provided a moment of insight here or there, maybe some comfort here or there, but 99.9% that I did not provide any lasting insight of any significance. Most people anyway brush against the truth in life, then brush it off and move on. The inconvenient truth is indeed inconvenient- so it is for me and for the great majority of people. We’d say: “Oh yes, this is true.. and then move to do what we always did, the way we always did…

The illusion or delusion that I am helping anyone is a convenient thinking, makes me feel good… but it is not based on reality. Why don’t I face my own reality, as I am doing here and now? Take my own advice. I know I have been helpful to you feeling better when you did. But I am sure I was of no lasting practical help. If I lived near you, I don’t even know if you’d want to meet me. I don’t know. Pseudo life is not real life… but then most people live their (my) pseudo life in real life.

Have a good weekend and take care of yourself. I want to take care of myself as well.
anita