Dear Sweet:
Did I get it right: you went to the doctor and you do NOT know if you are pregnant? Or are you pregnant but you did not decide if to try and keep it or abort it?

You wrote that you may make your relationship with your husband stronger if you have a baby. I read quite often and I know many cases where it was not so- relationships collapsed after having a baby or babies. After all look at the divorce rate- husbands and wives divorcing WITH children: how common is that?

Hope you make the right choice for you, for the future child (if one is to be)- you will be responsible for a new life, one that is dependent on you to make choices for you and for him/ her.

You wrote: “Lets see how life moves. What else am I destined for?”

Make your own destiny, Sweet, as much as is possible- you know of the Serenity Prayer:

God, grant me the serenity to accept the things i cannot change
The courage to CHANGE THE THINGS I CAN
and the wisdom to know the difference.

I am Capricorn, don’t much believe in these but there might be something to it.

Take care of sweet Sweet!!!
anita