Hi Anita,

No I won’t fully reach my desires by cutting ties with some. But, it will help with the focus I need to get there.

I can not cut ties with my mother. I’m all she has, sadly. I have told her that I will from now on make her appointments for her to allow more time with my family and my kids time to be kids.

I am cutting ties with the sibling who is the cause of most of the unnecessary pain and stress. May I add, just to give you an idea, that she “uninvited” my mother to the wedding. Mind you, my mom would be the only grandparent my nephew has by his side on his special day. So even though my sister thinks she ruined it for my mom, she did HER child wrong. And again, same sister who got mad at me for worrying something happened to her child when I did not hear from him when he said he’d be here and didn’t show up. I’m talking about the same sister who belittles, degrades, and talks very badly about HER family who have done nothing but bailed her out of bad situations and given her spoiled butt the shirts off our backs.

I’m still just curious as to if cutting ties,with siblings is frowned upon, giving my reasons stated?