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Hi Jon,
You know sometimes we need to trust ourselves that the universe will help work everything we need out, as long as you trust yourself and stay positive. I’m gay and very confident that things all work themselves out. For example there is this girl that’s a few years younger than me and we’ve been working together for over a year. She went with me to Hawaii which was a great test of our relationship in all aspects. We got along so perfectly and have so much in common but here’s the monkey wrench – She said she wanted to have an open relationship with me while we were in Hawaii together and asked how I felt about it.
Most people would probably be upset but I wasn’t because she was honest, communicative and I told her that I don’t do open relationships. I don’t like to share my women lol. The awesome thing is that her and I are still great friends, although she may be a little disappointed but at least we still have a great solid friendship. I am already happy with myself and my life because I never had any expectations to begin with. I’m completely happy with the way things are regardless and have a very positive outlook on my future ahead because I know great things are in store for me. 🙂
Relationships eventually work themselves out, whether it’s a friendship or romantic relationship. So right now is a good time for you to reflect and stay positive. Be grateful for all the wonderful things in your life, for what you have and things to come. Personal goals, we have to remember that we need to put them into action no matter what it may be. We are only in control of ourselves, our happiness, relationships we want to have and our futures.
Happiness begins with Y.O.U. always (((Hugs)))
I send you bunch of positivity, love & light.
Namaste,
E.