Dear Crystal:

.“if its meant to be you’ll be back together”- meant by who or what? No such entity. no pre determined future.

” you might have to wait a long time but if you love him just have a little hope” – Wait for… what? Better live life then put it on hold and wait. especially if you wait for the “and they lived happily ever after” god fairy.

3. “if it’s true love you’ll end up together” True love, what is that? IF it is true love, well it is not love right now, it is a mess. so if it is true love means if it WILL be true love? That is if the god fairy above has a plan for the two of you?

I had a difficult day so I have little patience for magical thinking this evening. The guy is very emotional, either sincerely so or he is histrionic, enjoying the drama and attention. He may very well be in pain, much of it his own doing. Maybe he had a difficult childhood as so many of us had and is in need of good psychotherapy. I would leave him be, help him with HIS decision to break up with you and show him what it means to break up with someone. Teach him that breaking up means NOT texting the person you broke up with and calling them.

anita