Hi Rkallas,

I understand how difficult it must be for you to struggle with your feelings about a loved one. Maybe she shared your feelings at one point, but now she is interested in someone else. You told her that you wanted to spend your life with her, but if she wants to believe that this is just because you are afraid of losing her or because of a new guy in the picture then that’s HER problem. You said, “We acted like a married couple and did everything together, but never had a relationship title.” Maybe it wasn’t official, so she thought it was okay and may have been dating other people all along?

Just be kind with yourself and time will make the feels less painful. Stay busy and do what you enjoy. Gook luck.