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Daniella
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Dear Anita,
Thank you for sharing your thoughts 🍀. And yes, I already shared with him my feelings.
– When I told him my grandma was sick, he just disappeared right away. And then he came back one day and told me he felt sorry for leaving me alone but he also had a lot of troubles to deal with so all he can do is telling me “be strong.” But I guess it’s okay at least he said sorry…
– When I told him my sister is depressed and that’s the reason why I really worry about him that he would kill himself or do something stupid. He told me he can’t understand how I feel ’cause he doesn’t know anyone who is depressed. But then he told me how silly I am to let a small thing like “love” affect my life.. And he told me all he cares about right now is money… Since he lost a huge amount of money, I just told him it hurts and maybe we should take a break and focus on our problems instead of relationship…
– when I told him my parents were in debt, he just didn’t care because my family is still richer than his ones even though we were in debt… So he always thinks that I am luckier than him, that I come from a total different world…
Well… I tried to share feelings w bf but every time I tried he let me down as he always has more problems than me, and I was always left alone in the corner and help myself to stand up…