Dear Leanne:

To stop feeling that there is something wrong, you need to listen to what is indeed wrong because there IS something wrong. Your emotions don’t lie, they carry the truth in them, valid messages. You don’t know what is wrong because the information you need is in the emotion and you don’t know yet what it is. It may have nothing to do with your boyfriend. It could be that a past hurt needs to be seen, a past hurt and betrayal and you fear it will happen again. That hurt prevents you from enjoying enough safety with your boyfriend, so you are anxious, fearful.

anita