Hi Rose

I recently just thought about what I would do if my partner did this…Or actually why I would do this. I think with social media and online dating apps etc. the temptation is really big. Because, technically, he didn’t cheat. He wanted to know if he’s still “got it”. Which is silly, but human. We constantly need the confirmation and attention of others. And it’s sad. But it’s hard to not get caught up in this attention-seeking behaviour. I don’t know what I would do exactly, but I would feel like a fool and like he betrayed my trust. You need to talk this out and ask yourself what he can do to make it up to you. I don’t think it’s worth throwing away a relationship because of some tinder messages. But that’s completely up to you. If in a few months you still don’t trust him, it will be harder and harder for you guys to make it work.

xx
Helen
aka TheDaydreamer