Anytime someone goes all in and then pulls back like he did is unsure of what they want. Mixed messages mean mixed feelings. For your own sanity step back and figure out what it is your want in a relationship (regardless of who it’s with) and then announce to the universe your intention to have that by moving forward with your own life and let him figure things out for himself. If he decides he wants to be with you then you can revisit whether he can give you what you want, but for now, I would move on and not wait for him to come back. Best of luck!

~Jodi