Dear Anita and Janeames,

Anita thanks for your words,i’m trying to practice and learn as most as I can with the situations as they happen, but you are right, I do need to learn to be more patient.

Janeames thanks for your words as well, and to be honest now that you pointed that out you made me think, I haven’t seen it from that perspective, maybe he is definitely looking for something different from what I want, I’ll try to pay attention to the signals as they come and Hopefully I will see the reality of things. As to go back to dating the whole idea of dating is kinda scary to me, because these days and in my generation (i’m 23) most of it happens trough apps and online dating which I did tried but it didn’t go very well and i felt like that wasn’t for me so I stopped. since my last ex-bf (which I met through online dating) I have been pretty much focusing on work and reading a lot (books and articles from here as well) and developing myself. Actually this guy came to talk to me trough social networks and dropped me a message and that’s how we started talking. I was pleasantly surprised (even though super skeptical at the beginning) and then the rest of the story I already told you here. I don’t feel like going and try to date other people, but I guess that I should be open to meet people and stuff if the situation arises and I want it. does that seem reasonable? What do you think?

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